Being in your feminine doesn’t mean becoming smaller. It doesn’t mean silence. It doesn’t mean weakness. It doesn’t mean handing your power to someone else and calling it love. For a long time, women were taught that softness required self-abandonment.

That being desirable meant being easy to manage. That strength made you “too much.” It doesn’t. Your feminine can be warm and discerning. Soft and clear. Nurturing and boundaried. Openhearted and impossible to control. You do not have to trade your strength for love. The right people won’t ask you to.

Your softness was never the problem. It was where you gave it away. 💛